'Who eats 7 slices and the rest of the breadsticks?': Woman erupts at sister-in-law for eating her pregnancy craving

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    Food - "The only thing I want is literally Hawaiian pizza."
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    Font - AITA for screaming at my sil for eating my pregnancy craving and then being pissed she didn't replace it English isn't my first language so I might have trouble and there will be spelling errors. I (35 f) and my husband (32 m) have been trying to have a kid for 5 years and I recently found out I was pregnant so far im 25 weeks. My cravings recently kicked in and the only thing I want is literally hawaiian pizza. Today I was craving it all day so I got one from papa johns and I also got so
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    Font - I woke up at 7:50 And wanted to get another slice and some breadsticks when I did there was none left I was reasonably upset as I had been craving it. I then asked husband and sil which one of them ate my pizza. Sil admitted that she had aten it and that she was hungry and pretty tired from work sil goes to work from 7:00 am to 5:00 pm I screamed at sil and told her to replace it immediately sil refused and said that I am acting ridiculous. I started crying and husband calmed me down and
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    Font - Immontes 12 hr. ago . What makes people think they can just eat other people's food? NTA. 5.9k Reply
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    Font - Otherwise_Earth_4094. 12 hr. ago NTA. Who eats the rest of someone's food without asking, much less a pregnant person's??!! Probably didn't need to yell, but hormones are real. Edit: Spelling 1.9k Reply Share
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    Font - Capable_Boat255. 12 hr. ago NTA, she ate the rest of your food without asking you? That's rude af. She ate over half a pizza that wasn't hers, AND she didn't even leave any? And then refused to get you another? Utterly ridiculous. Even my boyfriend knows better. 4976 Reply Share
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    Font - MM_mama 12 hr. ago ESH It was rude of her to eat your food, but your reaction was just inappropriate. There's very few situations where screaming is an appropriate response for an adult. Pregnancy, hormones, yada yada...I get it, but It's still not an excuse to act a fool! You're going to be a mother. Grow up. 671 Reply Share
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    Font - trolleytounderland - 12 hr. ago A lot of people here don't seem to understand that while occasionally like this happens and pregnant women do overreact, it's not because you want to react that way, it's the unbelievable amount of hormones that can drive women to act in ways even they find shocking. No, pregnancy is not an excuse to be abusive, but you were emotional, not abusive. Being loud and yelling is not abusive in itself, and from the sounds of it you were yelling without using abus
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    Font - She should not have eaten your food and when she was told she made a mistake she should have rectified it by ordering you a new one (what was her plan for dinner if you didn't bring the pizza home anyway? to just freeload your food while you're gracious enough to let her stay in your home in her time of need?) In the future, maybe a sit down conversation to set clear boundaries around food (and anything else applicable) would be in order for you, your husband and sil. If she refuses to ad
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    Font - An apology from both of you is also probably a good idea, her for eating your food and not replacing it, and you for having an emotional response that escalated an otherwise nuisance situation.
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    Font - cramsenden 10 hr. ago NTA. If you just removed the part that you are pregnant, everyone would have said that she has no right to your food without asking. But people here hate pregnant women and would hate it if you would ever get a pass for anything. When I was pregnant, subway put onions in my sandwich and I cried for half an hour, thankfully I was at home. They will never understand how it feels, and how horribly hard it is to contain your emotions in those moments. 239 Reply Share ...
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    Font - maroongrad 12 hr. ago. edited 11 hr. ago . NTA. Your pizza, you bought it, your money, your food. Doesn't matter if it's pizza, crab legs, or a hot pocket. Do not eat other people's food without asking. Even worse if it's a pregnant person's food, as that person is going to be hungry a lot more and usually has both cravings and foods they can't stomach any more. Was there ANY other food in the house she could eat, up to and including a sandwhich? If so she's totally TA and needed to eithe
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    Font - MaryAnne0601 - 11 hr. ago ΝΤΑ There are 10 slices in a Papa John Pizza You ate 3. Who eats 7 slices and the rest of the breadsticks?? Seriously. The men I know couldn't do that. Then ok if she ate it she should have apologized and ordered you another. It's a dang pizza. 119 Reply Share
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    Font - tatasz 12 hr. ago YTA She shouldn't have eaten your leftovers, but being pregnant is not an excuse to throw tantrums like a 3 years old. 100 Reply Share
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    Font - floraldragon 9 hr. ago. edited 6 hr. ago this sub really hates pregnant women and is full of hypocrisy. SIL has taken all of op's food before multiple times and isn't even paying rent. she's being allowed to live there and can't be respectful or take care of herself? like get food for yourself before you come home or the day before even. it's not anyone else's responsibility to feed her. she's not a baby.
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    Font - yearofawesome. 9 hr. ago In college once, a friend of my roommates cooked and ate a frozen pizza of mine without asking. He said he'd replace it. After months of him not doing anything, and three days before the end of the school year, I went to his room and stole his playstation 2. After about an hour or so, he had my pizza. This has nothing to do with your story, I was just reminded. ΝΤΑ
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    Font - Far-Juggernaut8880 12 hr. ago Is it possible with 3 pieces missing she had assumed you already had your dinner and therefore the rest was for husband or her? Pregnancy hormones are real and can make us more emotional & reactive than usual. NAH

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